Are you going to have a romantic evening at home? Planning a getaway with Mister? No matter what’s on the naughty agenda you must be prepared with the right tools. At School of Seduction, we call our tool kit the “Naughty Bag”. You would not go camping without a tent and food. So, why would you plan a romantic moment without items to set the mood?
So here are a few items to get your naughty bag started. Whether you are married or single being ready and looking good in the moment will boost your sexy confidence. It’s good to have one for home and one for travel. You should always try to make travel a good reason to kick your naughty into high gear. Hopefully you are already in a naughty flow at home. 😉
If you stay romance ready, you don’t have to get romance ready.
♥Lip Balm-lips must always be supple and kissable at all times.
♥Mints-Keep your breathe fresh! Also, a great treat during oral pleasure.
♥Condoms-Because a Sex Kitten knows that safe sex is the best sex.
♥Thongs-Sexy under any outfit. Oh and keep disposables on hand in Case of an Emergency.
♥Heels-4 inches or more make you look larger than life, giving you long legs and a nice butt.
♥T-shirt & Scissors-Be prepared to make a sexy little outfit at a moments notice.
♥Baby Wipes– Easy before/after sex clean up and makeup remover.
♥Candles/Incense-Always set the mood. We all look great by the glow of candlelight. Don’t forget a lighter.
♥Baby Oil/Lotion-After shower, give your skin life with a little shine!
♥Sex Toys/Lube-Threesome is now an option–with a toy. Maybe you need a little time for self discovery. Or just playtime with him. Shop at SOSNAUGHTYSHOP!
♥Cuffs/Ties-No matter how you tie it, it’s always more fun without hands!
♥Blindfold/Scarf-Remove the sight to heighten the senses. Goes well with ties.
♥Lingerie-Every woman needs pretty things, nothing makes you feel more feminine. Men are visual!
♥Wigs-Give him a new girl, every now and then. His ultimate love affair is with you. Switch things up.
♥Music-Make a playlist for cuddle time, lovemaking, travel, etc. Give your love life a sound track.
♥Camera-Capture the moment. Before, After, During. His private collection.
♥Paper/Pen-Leave him sweet and sexy notes. Send a postcard/love letter to him from your time together.
♥Perfume-Entice him with your lovely scent. Don’t over spray. Add a little to that love letter.
♥Makeup/Nail Polish-Just in case a touch up is needed! Make a travel set.
♥Naughty Ideas-Take a class or visit http://www.sexinfo101.com to find a few new sex positions. Print. Add to next love fest.
♥Champagne/Cocktails-Serve up sexy drinks, sit back, and relax. Drink Responsibly!
♥Massage Oil-Take away the stress with a little rub down a la nude.
♥Bubble Bath/Scrub-Bathe together as a way to cleanse and connect. Make this a ritual. Or make him feel like king, with a royal bath. Wash him!
♥Personal Toiletries-A seductress is always prepared! You never know where adventure will lead.
♥Extra Clothes/Shoes-To where home or for a quick change for dinner. Always something sexy.
What do you put in your Naughty Bag?
Post Your Love
Write messages on sticky notes telling him why you love him so much. Arrange them into a heart shape on a mirror or wall for him to find.
Play at Dinner
How fun are the kids dinner place mats at restaurants:mrgreen:. Well create your own with a naughty word search, tic tac toe, connect the dots, and other fun puzzles with a romantic twist. Be creative. Play at your next dinner date. Don’t forget your crayons!
Love Nest Under the Stars
The Fall weather is perfect for this outdoors love nest made of cozy blankets and pillows on the back of a truck bed. No truck try a blow up mattress. Grab some snacks, wine, books, and games. Cuddle up and enjoy each other.
What are your favorite romantic gestures?
This we are wigging out!!! I love to wear wigs, they are apart of my alter ego. The wig I wore to this bachelorette party, name is Sierra. I have at least 10 of them😹 . I love her so much. She is low maintenance and wild. Here is a few tips for choosing the right wig for you.
1. Find a local store that has nice clean wig displays. You can not try on a raggedy wig and get the full effect. The wigs should be close to perfect condition.
2. Make up your face. This will help you to make a better decision, because will feel pretty. Plus, you can see what the complete look will be.
3. Take a friend, who is honest. Good friends don’t let friends buy an ugly wig. They can’t be returned. Take your time and have fun.
4. Take a few hairstyles you are loving from magazines or make a Pinterest board on the subject. That way you have a few looks to try on first and see where they leas you.
5. Remember, you can always restyle or have a stylist shorten, shape, and style your new wig.
6. Lastly all wigs are not made for you or anyone. You have to figure out what styles work for you. I personally go big or I go home.
I hope these tips will help you find a new wig to revamp you look.
Tomorrow we will discuss ways a wig can boost your confidence and add to your “alter ego’s” persona.
Email any questions you may have about wigs.
School of Seduction is designed to assist women in reviving their sexy esteem. We have a pretty strict dress code, based on the class. Our Sexy Rehab classes have begun and will run through Fall. So the dress code requires each lady to wear fishnets or a variation of this sexy hosiery. I have heard many women say they can’t attend class because of this (fishnets).
Let’s take a look at Fishnets! It is apparent that fishnets have a bad reputation, which surprises me in 2015, considering I have found fishnets in Walgreens. They are now in most stores during the cool season. Which is a new thing, they used to be rare to find. Harley loves fishnets, it is the best way to be covered up yet still sexy. Plus, men love them, and it’s the new black. Ladies we have to let go of the stereo types that are suffocating our sexy.
In SOS classes it is a space to allow you to be woman, be free of others opinions, and to learn how to be unapologetic about your sexy self. Fishnets are lingerie, that can be looked at as Classy or Trashy. Some forget the classy, and focus on the trashy. But we can look at a lot of things as being trashy or slutty– red lip stick, thongs, stilettos, you get it. It’s all in the eye of the beholder.
So be you and it’s ok to push passed your sexy comfort zone. You never know, you may like it or your Man may love it too.
“Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.”
Beauty rituals are daily, bi-weekly, and monthly routines essential to you and your relationship. Sexy self confidence is gained from pampering yourself. When you feel good about yourself, you feel better with your mate. Your beauty is what attracted him and will continuously seduce him. You are his sexy billboard and all the eye candy he needs. Always remember that men are visual. It’s your looks and style that attracts him before you even opened your mouth. Now that you are in a committed relationship it is so easy to fall into the “I got a man” comfort zone, but you have to continue what you advertised to get him. Although life has become challenging with kids, work, and making intimate time for your mate, you still have to establish a routine of beauty so that you don’t lose yourself along the way. In today’s world there are so many things begging for your man’s attention. It’s your job to keep all his attention and focus on you. So, drop the excuses and mark your calendar with days to pamper yourself. Please note: Harley does not believe you should look “Hollywood” ready everyday. Date night requires special effort. You should never step out with your man looking busted and broke down. My mama always told me, “if you stay ready, you don’t have to get ready.” You are a representation of your man.
What are your beauty rituals? How do you find time in your schedule to make it happen?
We are doing Summer right at School of Seduction. We are a month into our Sexy Dance Camp and the ladies are learning how to shake things up a bit while having fun. We will continue the fun this month with more sexy dance, plus other classes to assist our ladies in enhancing their sexy and confidence. We look forward to seeing you in class:)