Naughty Bag Packing List

Are you going to have a romantic evening at home?  Planning a getaway with Mister?   No matter what’s on the naughty agenda you must be prepared with the right tools.  At School of Seduction, we call our tool kit the  “Naughty Bag”.  You would not go camping without a tent and food. So, why would you plan a romantic moment without items to set the mood?

So here are a few items to get your naughty bag started.  Whether you are married or single being ready and looking good in the moment will boost your sexy confidence. It’s good to have one for home and one  for travel.  You should always try to make travel a good reason to kick your naughty into high gear. Hopefully you are already in a naughty flow at home.  😉

If you stay romance ready, you don’t have to get romance ready.

Lip Balm-lips must always be supple and kissable at all times.
Mints-Keep your breathe fresh!  Also, a great treat during oral pleasure.
Condoms-Because a Sex Kitten knows that safe sex is the best sex.
Thongs-Sexy under any outfit. Oh and keep disposables on hand in Case of an Emergency.
Heels-4 inches or more make you look larger than life, giving you long legs and a nice butt.
T-shirt & Scissors-Be prepared to make a sexy little outfit at a moments notice.
Baby Wipes– Easy before/after sex clean up and makeup remover.
Candles/Incense-Always set the mood.  We all look great by the glow of candlelight. Don’t forget a lighter.
Baby Oil/Lotion-After shower, give your skin life with a little shine!
Sex Toys/Lube-Threesome is now an option–with a toy.  Maybe you need a little time for self discovery.  Or just playtime with him.  Shop at SOSNAUGHTYSHOP!
Cuffs/Ties-No matter how you tie it, it’s always more fun without hands!
Blindfold/Scarf-Remove the sight to heighten the senses.  Goes well with ties.
Lingerie-Every woman needs pretty things, nothing makes you feel more feminine. Men are visual!
Wigs-Give him a new girl, every now and then.  His  ultimate love affair is with you. Switch things up.
Music-Make a playlist for cuddle time, lovemaking, travel, etc. Give your love life a sound track.
Camera-Capture the moment. Before, After, During.  His private collection.
Paper/Pen-Leave him sweet and sexy notes.  Send a postcard/love letter to him from your time together.
Perfume-Entice him with your lovely scent. Don’t over spray.  Add a little to that love letter.
Makeup/Nail Polish-Just in case a touch up is needed! Make a travel set.
Naughty Ideas-Take a class or visit http://www.sexinfo101.com to find a few new sex positions.  Print.  Add to next love fest.
Champagne/Cocktails-Serve up sexy drinks, sit back, and relax.  Drink Responsibly!
Massage Oil-Take away the stress with a little rub down a la nude.
Bubble Bath/Scrub-Bathe together as a way to cleanse and connect.  Make this a ritual.  Or make him feel like king, with a royal bath. Wash him!
Personal Toiletries-A seductress is always prepared!  You never know where adventure will lead.
Extra Clothes/Shoes-To where home or for a quick change for dinner. Always something sexy.

What do you put in your Naughty Bag?

Behind Closed Doors with Ms. LaVelle

We present the beautiful Ms. Lavelle. . .This gorgeous super woman has taken School of Seduction by storm with her passion for being a mother and keeping her “Man” satisfied, all while writing an environmentally friendly curriculum for schools, and gaining herself another degree, all at the same time.

Six months after having twins, this diva enrolled in my Sexy Refresher course.  She quickly became my class funny girl, with her quick wit and quirky sayings.  She wanted to use the class as a tool to reinvent the sexy she once possessed.  Boy, she definitely achieved that and much more.  From not wearing makeup or wigs, to rocking the diva look every time I have seen her since.  She is the perfect example of my mission statement.

LaVelle was surely the most interesting to work with to produce this Boudoir shoot! Initially she had no vision of what her photos would look like.  On the day of the shoot, she not only had “vision” she had naughty lingerie to match. With a focus on her “alter ego” and the desires of her significant other she went from sweet to sultry with application of lashes and lipstick.

LaVelle brought her whole mommy crew to take class with her and they all did the photo shoot!  I love mommyhood, for wanting to bring sexy back!  Thank you LaVelle for allowing Marlene (Photog), Shanai, (MUA) and myself (Harley) to transform you in to a sexy Pinup!  We hope he loved each image.

Kiss Me Under the Berries

It’s that time of year already. . .the season for mistletoe.   You know that cute little piece of greenery, with the little white berries dangling from it.  For centuries the mistletoe has hung above doorways and ceilings during the Christmas holiday.   Just waiting for an unsuspecting lady to get caught under it, making her fair game for a smooch fest from any man catching her.  Sounds real romantic to me–if he was the object of my affection–but some stranger leaning in with a pucker, no.  He would get a kiss in the eye from my fist.  Hey, I’m just saying.  So, to save some faces I will plan my own kissing games, to keep the kisses flowing though out the Holiday season.  So let’s take a moment to brush up on our kissing game.

Harley’s 20 favorite kissing ideas:

1.  Red Light Special- When driving around town, steal kisses at every stop light.  So, take the long way home.

2.  Candid Kissing- Kiss in front of the camera in elevators or when standing near an ATM.  Someones’ always watching.

3.  Wet Kisses- Grab your rain boots and lover.  Enjoy the moment by splashing in puddles and  kissing until you are soaked.  Kissing in the rain. . .romantic.

4.  Sundae Smooches- Drag your lover into the kitchen, make a sexy lip sundae with sprinkles, whip cream,  chocolate, and a cherry to top it off right.  Take your time licking away the toppings!  Relish in the sweet kisses that will follow.

5.  Ice Kiss- While French kissing, pass a small piece of ice between your mouths.  Brrrr!

6.  French Kiss- Lean together into a simple kiss, open your mouths and touch tongues lightly. Enjoy the feeling of your tongues moving against each other. Important point – do not move too deeply into your partner’s mouth.

7.  POST-IT Kiss- Use Post-It notes to make a trail through your house that leads to your lips. Use your sexiest red lipstick to leave your kisses on each note with an arrow pointing to the next note. You, of course, are at the end of the trail with a Post-It note over your lips that says, “LIFT FOR KISS.”

8.  Nip Kiss- Instead of kissing with your lips, lean in close and gently bite your date’s lower lip, being very careful not to bite too hard.

9.  Breakfast in Bed Kisses- Sneak out of bed to make your love a special breakfast.  Use fruit and othe items you can easily feed your love.  Kiss between bites.

10.  Chocolate Kisses- Buy a bag of chocolate kisses.  Remove all the “Kiss” flags, put them in a mini box with the note “REDEEMABLE ANYTIME!

11.  Upside-Down Kiss (Spiderman Kiss)- Have your partner lie on their back or sit in a chair and lean their head back. Lean over and give them a kiss with your heads pointed the opposite direction (noses near each other’s chins).

12.  Butterfly Kiss- Get close to your partner and flutter your eyelids against their cheek, neck, lips, or nose.

13.  Mystery Kiss- Head to the local supermarket or candy shop and each pick out a bunch of flavors you like – this could be things like root beer barrels, toffee, grapes, strawberries, etc. (Jelly Belly’s work well). Don’t show each other what you bought. Take turns closing your eyes while your partner eats a bite and then gives you a French kiss. See if you can guess the flavor!

14.  Tease Kiss- Lean in until your lips barely graze each other’s and pull back slightly. Do this a few times, enjoying the feeling of your partner’s breath, before kissing.

15.  PDA Kiss- With a note or phone call, tell your love to meet you at a certain place and time (e.g. park bench, street corner, ice cream stand) for a present. When your love arrives, have a bow stuck to your lips.

16.  Goodbye Kiss- Send off your love in the morning with a quick kiss. As your love turns to leave, pull him or her back for a second, more passionate kiss.

17.  Ear Kiss- Whisper to your love how special he or she is to you, and then seal your message with an ear kiss!

18.  Hickey- Gently, but firmly suck on your partner’s skin until the area is pink or red. It may be best to do this in an area that can be covered by clothes.

19.  Shocking Kiss– Shuffle around the carpet until you build up an electric charge, lean in close until only your lips meet and give off a spark.

20.  Kiss on the Hand-Take your partner’s hand and give it a light kiss on the top or palm.

Happy Holidays!  Eat. Drink. Kiss!