Naughty Bag Packing List

Are you going to have a romantic evening at home?  Planning a getaway with Mister?   No matter what’s on the naughty agenda you must be prepared with the right tools.  At School of Seduction, we call our tool kit the  “Naughty Bag”.  You would not go camping without a tent and food. So, why would you plan a romantic moment without items to set the mood?

So here are a few items to get your naughty bag started.  Whether you are married or single being ready and looking good in the moment will boost your sexy confidence. It’s good to have one for home and one  for travel.  You should always try to make travel a good reason to kick your naughty into high gear. Hopefully you are already in a naughty flow at home.  😉

If you stay romance ready, you don’t have to get romance ready.

Lip Balm-lips must always be supple and kissable at all times.
Mints-Keep your breathe fresh!  Also, a great treat during oral pleasure.
Condoms-Because a Sex Kitten knows that safe sex is the best sex.
Thongs-Sexy under any outfit. Oh and keep disposables on hand in Case of an Emergency.
Heels-4 inches or more make you look larger than life, giving you long legs and a nice butt.
T-shirt & Scissors-Be prepared to make a sexy little outfit at a moments notice.
Baby Wipes– Easy before/after sex clean up and makeup remover.
Candles/Incense-Always set the mood.  We all look great by the glow of candlelight. Don’t forget a lighter.
Baby Oil/Lotion-After shower, give your skin life with a little shine!
Sex Toys/Lube-Threesome is now an option–with a toy.  Maybe you need a little time for self discovery.  Or just playtime with him.  Shop at SOSNAUGHTYSHOP!
Cuffs/Ties-No matter how you tie it, it’s always more fun without hands!
Blindfold/Scarf-Remove the sight to heighten the senses.  Goes well with ties.
Lingerie-Every woman needs pretty things, nothing makes you feel more feminine. Men are visual!
Wigs-Give him a new girl, every now and then.  His  ultimate love affair is with you. Switch things up.
Music-Make a playlist for cuddle time, lovemaking, travel, etc. Give your love life a sound track.
Camera-Capture the moment. Before, After, During.  His private collection.
Paper/Pen-Leave him sweet and sexy notes.  Send a postcard/love letter to him from your time together.
Perfume-Entice him with your lovely scent. Don’t over spray.  Add a little to that love letter.
Makeup/Nail Polish-Just in case a touch up is needed! Make a travel set.
Naughty Ideas-Take a class or visit http://www.sexinfo101.com to find a few new sex positions.  Print.  Add to next love fest.
Champagne/Cocktails-Serve up sexy drinks, sit back, and relax.  Drink Responsibly!
Massage Oil-Take away the stress with a little rub down a la nude.
Bubble Bath/Scrub-Bathe together as a way to cleanse and connect.  Make this a ritual.  Or make him feel like king, with a royal bath. Wash him!
Personal Toiletries-A seductress is always prepared!  You never know where adventure will lead.
Extra Clothes/Shoes-To where home or for a quick change for dinner. Always something sexy.

What do you put in your Naughty Bag?

Sexy Summer Camp

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We are doing Summer right at School of Seduction.  We are a month into our Sexy Dance Camp and the ladies are learning how to shake things up a bit while having fun.  We will continue the fun this month with more sexy dance, plus other classes to assist our ladies in enhancing their sexy and confidence.  We look forward to seeing you in class:)

What We Do at School of Seduction

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The School of Seduction is higher education for women/couples seeking to reinvent their sexy confidence or wanting to enhance various aspects of their romantic and intimate lifestyles. We believe that fun and adventure is the spice of any long term relationship. Therefore, it is our mission to provide each student with an innovative and creative learning experience. SOS takes pride in creating a learning environment that is private and expressive. A space that gives the tools and knowledge needed to build confidence in self, flirting, seducing, romance, and sex. Our curriculum is designed to increase the intimacy and fun in romantic relationships. There is no nudity in our workshops. 

Join us in the near future for fun, adventure, and intimacy.

Harley

Finding Confidence In a Click.

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Confident. Powerful. Beautiful. Sexy.  These are the words that come to mind when I see this photograph, taken by the late Marlene Lillian.  In 2010, I started Sultry Soiree, now known as the School of Seduction, as an outlet to educate women in many areas of confidence, life, and intimacy. As a part of this dream brand, I wanted to allow woman a space to have professional boudoir photos taken as a gift for themselves or significant other.  In my mind I had a vision of what sexy looked and felt like. I needed a photographer who would see my vision in the same light, then came Marlene.  She was funny, passionate, and a true artist. I knew she was perfect.

We set a date, began planning, and the ladies signed up.  Some were existing students others were new to the concept of my brand.  As the coach, I volunteered to be photographed first, as an example to my students.  Secretly, my students did not know  this would be a challenge for my shy side.  Having my picture taken in a sexy manner was one of those moments of discomfort and insecurity for me.  At the time one of my best friends, Lala was my assistant, so she helped, we shopped, as well as assisted others in their boudoir vision.  We were ready and prepared to have our first marathon boudoir photo shoot, at the elegant Gates House Bed & Breakfast in Columbus, Georgia.

On shoot day I woke up with mixed emotions about the pending day’s events.  I was super excited that a dream for my business would come true.  But, I was terrified that I had signed myself up to be photographed.  It did not matter that I had sexy outfits, or that I was accustom to being viewed as a sex symbol. Or that I was considered the confidence coach for the women who would follow me in the same task.  All I could think about was, the thought of a stranger looking at me through her lens.  Not just looking, but capturing the way she see saw me.  The mere thought made me crazy and ultimately my assistant too.  She was in awe, of the sight of my panic.

My assistant told me to find Harley (my alter ego) and pull it together.  So, I drove to the B & B to get this terrifying dream day started.  I had my face made and got dressed.  In walked, my friend Temeshia, student and my class photographer.  She was so supportive and excited, helping me laugh away some of the nerves.  More ladies started to arrive for makeup and wardrobe.  In that moment I was reminded of the lessons I had shared with the ladies over the previous months.  The most important lesson being, you have to be confident, no matter who is looking at you or what you think they maybe thinking.  So, after a glass of wine, I climbed on this most gorgeous bed, to have my picture taken.  The first few clicks were nerve-wracking, but I never said stop.  After more than 200 clicks I began to feel Sexy, Powerful, Beautiful, Confident.  It was amazing that what seemed so scary just moments before, started to feel glorious, and freeing, and natural.

The day was a success, as I returned to my role as coach and assisted my ladies in having the best moment of their lives.  The boudoir sessions have become an important part of the Alter Ego Series, it is the next step in pushing past our comfort zones into confidence.  To this day I have used my boudoir photos as an example to my students that if I can, so can you.  At the end of the day I am woman, I am a work in progress.

I truly miss Marlene’s laugh and what she brought to my brand.  I learned so much about my self through her lens.

Be Confident.  Be Sexy.  Be You.

xo, Harley