Naughty Bag Packing List

Are you going to have a romantic evening at home?  Planning a getaway with Mister?   No matter what’s on the naughty agenda you must be prepared with the right tools.  At School of Seduction, we call our tool kit the  “Naughty Bag”.  You would not go camping without a tent and food. So, why would you plan a romantic moment without items to set the mood?

So here are a few items to get your naughty bag started.  Whether you are married or single being ready and looking good in the moment will boost your sexy confidence. It’s good to have one for home and one  for travel.  You should always try to make travel a good reason to kick your naughty into high gear. Hopefully you are already in a naughty flow at home.  😉

If you stay romance ready, you don’t have to get romance ready.

Lip Balm-lips must always be supple and kissable at all times.
Mints-Keep your breathe fresh!  Also, a great treat during oral pleasure.
Condoms-Because a Sex Kitten knows that safe sex is the best sex.
Thongs-Sexy under any outfit. Oh and keep disposables on hand in Case of an Emergency.
Heels-4 inches or more make you look larger than life, giving you long legs and a nice butt.
T-shirt & Scissors-Be prepared to make a sexy little outfit at a moments notice.
Baby Wipes– Easy before/after sex clean up and makeup remover.
Candles/Incense-Always set the mood.  We all look great by the glow of candlelight. Don’t forget a lighter.
Baby Oil/Lotion-After shower, give your skin life with a little shine!
Sex Toys/Lube-Threesome is now an option–with a toy.  Maybe you need a little time for self discovery.  Or just playtime with him.  Shop at SOSNAUGHTYSHOP!
Cuffs/Ties-No matter how you tie it, it’s always more fun without hands!
Blindfold/Scarf-Remove the sight to heighten the senses.  Goes well with ties.
Lingerie-Every woman needs pretty things, nothing makes you feel more feminine. Men are visual!
Wigs-Give him a new girl, every now and then.  His  ultimate love affair is with you. Switch things up.
Music-Make a playlist for cuddle time, lovemaking, travel, etc. Give your love life a sound track.
Camera-Capture the moment. Before, After, During.  His private collection.
Paper/Pen-Leave him sweet and sexy notes.  Send a postcard/love letter to him from your time together.
Perfume-Entice him with your lovely scent. Don’t over spray.  Add a little to that love letter.
Makeup/Nail Polish-Just in case a touch up is needed! Make a travel set.
Naughty Ideas-Take a class or visit http://www.sexinfo101.com to find a few new sex positions.  Print.  Add to next love fest.
Champagne/Cocktails-Serve up sexy drinks, sit back, and relax.  Drink Responsibly!
Massage Oil-Take away the stress with a little rub down a la nude.
Bubble Bath/Scrub-Bathe together as a way to cleanse and connect.  Make this a ritual.  Or make him feel like king, with a royal bath. Wash him!
Personal Toiletries-A seductress is always prepared!  You never know where adventure will lead.
Extra Clothes/Shoes-To where home or for a quick change for dinner. Always something sexy.

What do you put in your Naughty Bag?

A Dare To Love: A Couple’s Retreat

photo(30)20140219-204657.jpgThe day of “Love”.  This year I spent my Valentine’s Day with 12 lovers.  I consider my self a lucky girl.  As the facilitator of this couple’s retreat,  we spent 2 days nestled in a quiet cabin in Helen, Ga.  The theme from the book “Love Dare”.  A 40 day challenge to practice unconditional love in various aspects of the couple’s real life situations.

Intimacy plays a very important role when it comes to loving another unconditionally.  So it was important for us t learn as a group but, to have a space to learn as a couple in private time. Activities as a group included DIY class, cooking, a trip to the winery,  candle light dinner.  It was necessary to separate the men and women.  Cigars and an open conversation with the husbands at a cozy cigar shop gave me a better perspective of their views on romance and sex.  My wives took the cake in a super early morning mini Seduction School lesson, lap dances, strutting in heels, and learning what it takes to build desire.  The evening Sex School session gave us an opportunity to introduce a few toys and tips to revamp the bedroom routine.  Plus, tips on making it happen regardless of mood and schedules.

Although, it was a lot of fun getting to know the group I cherished the one on one (usually late night) chats most of all.  The interesting part about this group was that they were honest with themselves on what the high and low points were in their relationship.  Not being afraid to pull me to the side for a little advice when needed.  The first step is definitely having a desire to do better for your mate.

I am grateful for meeting such a lovely group of loving wives and adoring husbands.  It is honorable that they cherish each other enough to take time away from their kids and careers in nu0rish and invest in their marriages.

XO, Harley

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